My Philosophy of Marriage #1

How I make my own recipe for my most successful relationship?

FORMULA / RECIPE #1

Sharing is caring. Upon my journey of life, I have got my opportunity in my own sweet time listening to others who have gone through marriage more than 5, 10, 15 years

Some had gone through tough marriage, quarrelling, masam muka, throw things at each other, raise voice to partners, and whatever negative thing that u can ever imagine in this world. 

Some had gone through beautiful moment with rainbows colors, bright children..

With the experienced shared by others and after I have gone through this marriage for 1 & half year ++. 

I tend to build up my own successful relationship formulas. 

The formula/recipe goes like this……….

#1 – COMMUNICATION

ni contoh komunikasi, bukan sepak-sepak eh

The engine and the heart of relationship. 

Since we are engaged, I try me level best to practice this. COMMUNICATION

Semua rasa sebaik mungkin kita kene luahkan.

Rasa happy, tak puas hati, sedih..(yg ni paling2 pun kalau tak boleh cakap, nangis je la).

I still remembered, penangan COMMUNICATION.

On the way balik holiday dengan family hubbyku, Melaka – KL, the journey will usually take about 3 hours je. As usual, we going to drive separately from others la, konon-kononnye nak enjoy the journey driving in PLUS highway.

Tapi kami terlalu asyik berborak kat RnR Seremban smp tak sedar masa berlalu, then we stop lagi minum-minum tepi stesyen minyak Petronas Seremban sambil nak melegakan perasaan masing-masing. End up the journey took our time for 4 hours ++.

Kadang-kadang memang selalunye kita akan rasa tak semua benda semudah itu je kite nak luahkan. Tapi kadang-kadang jugak situasi boleh bertukar jadi macam gunung berapi, bile tiba-tiba semua rasa jadi membuak-buak nak kite keluarkan dan luahkan. Masa tu bile dah tak sedar semua benda kita akan hambur dan tabor depan orang itu dan sekaligus aku sangat faham kenapa kuasa TALAK tak ade kat tak tangan perempuan.